5 Mistakes that parents make

Being a parent is a blessing and a huge responsibility. It is up to us to shape little humans into well rounded adults. 

Ephesians 6:4 says: And fathers, do not be irritating your children, but go on bringing them up in the discipline and admonition of Jehovah.

Colossians 3:21 says: You fathers, do not be exasperating your children, so that they do not become downhearted.

Here are some mistakes that parents make as they raise their children. Ofcourse some of them could be well meaning but they end up producing the opposite results.

1. Being too critical 

We are all human beings and by that, no one is perfect. Moreover, people have their own way of doings things. As a parent, if you are always criticizing your child for small mistakes or how they like to do their things, you're teaching them that they're not good enough and that will lead to low self esteem or always doubting themselves before they attempt to do something. 

2. Micromanaging

Are you always behind your child's shoulder observing and controlling everything they do? If you do, you need to stop because you're teaching them not to be independent. Let them make their own decisions and figure their way out through things in life. 

3. Comparing

It isn't such a good feeling to be compared to someone else. If you're always comparing your child, either directly or indirectly, to other children or siblings, you're teaching them that they are not worth it and that there is something wrong with them. You might think that making comparative statements will make them act in your ideal way but you're only making them grow into angry and resentful people.

4. Not setting time for relaxation or enjoyment

If you don't set time for relaxation or enjoyment, you'll end up being tired and grumpy. You'll also have no time to bond with your child. If you don't bond with your child, they will grow up detached from you.

5. Not listening

Being older doesn't necessarily mean you are always right. It's wise to listen to your child's opinions and thoughts. This will foster a good relationship between the two of you as your child will feel loved, valued and heard. They will also not be hesitant to come to you incase they have a problem.